Falling Pianos: Wayward Wife & LRT (8)

[Defacto]

Journaling:
I'm having a great morning so far. I did a couple of exercises at work with some colleagues to get the blood flowing. Then, I picked up my new iPad from UPS so I can start preparing for my fantasy football draft next month.

STBX called later this morning but I didn't answer. Then she sent a TM.

STBX: I put an offer in on a house down the way from you. I like the idea of us all staying close together.

Me: Ok, good luck!

STBX calls again but I don't answer. She sends another TM.

STBX: I thought you would be happier to have us all nearby.

I get such a strange vibe from you. Like you really don't want me to be happy.

Me: Slammed at work right now...

Of course I want you to be happy. I also think it's great for the kids to be close by and near school.

STBX: Ok. It makes me feel better too. I want them to know their daddy is right there. Always nearby.
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The old Defacto would probably stress out about this little text exchange with STBX. Sure, it's a little discouraging to see her so ready to make such a large post-MR financial investment, especially before D is even final.

However, that discouragement quickly subsides as I realize that it IS more convenient to have the kids close by. And, if STBX feels comfortable moving forward with purchasing a new house at this time, more power to her. She couldn't live with her parents forever.

I don't think this new development changes my approach. Am I wrong?