Alright I will try and do that. In the summer H does watch S 3 x during the week day from 8:30 until 5 although he leave S alone for 3 -4 hours while he goes to the gym and works out. Yes that is right 3-4 hours at the gym leaves S10 alone at home. This is how he chooses to spend time with S.
I think maybe try alternating every other weekend he can have a overnight with S. When S is in school it changes and H will pick him up from school at 2:45 and have him until 5:30 when I get home 3x a week so to me that counts as spending time with son and he wont need to do the Sunday stop over thing IMO. what do you think?
But if we do D I don't want H to have a case for shared care because I don't think he is capable of that at this point.
