have i been making mistakes too long

[tkdmme]

The last time we spoke about the marriage was on Monday. she continually sais that she is waiting to see if she begins to feel differently about me over the next few months. I see this as a good thing if I can stick to the plan. The rest of the week has been uneventful. I went with my boss to have dinner on Tuesday night, Went out with some friends Wednesday night., and stayed home last night watched a movie with the kids and went to bed.

As long as I don't bring anything up she acts as if nothing is going on. Don't get me wrong, she still has very little to say to me other than stuff about the kids or general family stuff.

She has some family in town staying at her mothers this week and they are planning to have us over for dinner at some point. Her mother and Brother both live within five miles of us so they are very aware of what's going on. However the family that is visiting doesn't know about our problems. I not sure if I need to go to this dinner or not. As I said earlier as long as nobody brings up the topic of out marriage everything seems fine.

Her Brother is a doctor and faithful Christian and she works for him. He has been very diligent in trying to keep her from going through with this. He does not agree with divorce and will do anything to prevent it. I know she feels a lot of pressure from him and her mother to stay in the M. There is nothing I can do about that. I have asked them not to pressure her but they tell me that they are not going to let her make this mistake. I think this may be making my sitch worse.

I really worry when each weekend approaches and we will together for most of it. This is where I always screw up my plan.