I was reading on of sandi2's articles about the difference between WW who is having an affair and one who isn't. She mentioned that the approach should be different. Can anyone help me with this. My wife is not having an affair. I know this because she works for her brother and he is against the divorce, She comes straight home after work, and my gut is telling me that she is being faithful. Is the approach to this situation the same as the approach to someone who is having an A.
I am not sure what Sandi has in mind for the approach being different. IMHO it is the same, my wife never had an affair either except for maybe a fantasy affair in her head. Their is no way you are going to know about that either since you are not inside her head.
My opinion is that once she decides to leave the marriage it is still infidelity even if their is no affair partner.
