Thanks Toots and jim0987. I ended up writing her 2-3 fairly warm sentences to congratulate her. And this morning she texts me: "So, could you call this D lawyer? Let me know the date for an appointment".
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.