Hi Peter - you have given me so much great and comforting advice throughout my time here - I consider you the zen master - told me about tao te ching (which I have read and think about a lot), helped me with maintaining PMA in my house, being calm, thinking logically............

I totally understand the point you are as I am there too. It's like all we ever wanted was that one simple thing, a real R, that seems so easy but is completely out of our reach in our current lives.

I don't have any advice as I am in the process of exploding everything on my end, but I wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and wish you all the best.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015