Who was in the tunnel anyways?

[uRworthy]

Aww, thanks AJ. And disagreeing makes it interesting sometimes.

Ok, I want to understand because I thought we were kind of saying the same thing though you expanded on it, I think. I wrote:

She isn't sure yet if you are all in. That doesn't have to do with anything that you are doing and everything to do with what she is feeling.

It's an awful lot that you have to accept. She knows that, so she tests.

But I do think that part of your W's reasons for testing is not about you. She knows you have a lot to accept, yes. But she may be looking at it as something *she* wouldn't accept and may not be able to see how you can. While we all know that you aren't sure what you will or won't accept until faced with it, she is the one that put you in that position.