FIDO - Changing the Rules - Pt 3

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Well, OM came and went with minimal drama. There may be a meltdown later, but it'll be this weekend at the earliest, if pattern is followed.

Apparently there was some talk of them getting together for drinks (the whole "closure" thing) but he ran out of time and it didn't happen. Darn. Apparently they didn't even see each other at all one of the days.

But of course they've already discussed next time, whenever that is....She knows how I feel about that.

She was strangely clingy with me the last couple of days. She even wanted all 4 of us to go out and get frozen yogurt last night. She was smiling, laughing, apparently having a good time. I don't know what that means. It's sad that I can't even enjoy a nice family outing without wondering what's really in her head.

On another note, W wants to put MC on hold for 4 weeks, citing that she's "overwhelmed". To be honest, I'm OK with that. I'm not sure how much MC is really helping, considering that she still has all this preoccupation with OM. She did agree to a very specific break; we'll even go ahead and schedule our future appointments 4 weeks from now.

On the plus side she's starting with her IC today. I'm happy about that.