Well H moved to a hotel yesterday until his apartment is available on the 18th. OW left N.J. and come here to Missouri and is with him. I am staying out of the home until he comes back and moves all his stuff on the 18th and 19th. It was too painful to watch him pack and move. My DB coach said it wasn't good for me to be so emotional around him. He said it signaled that H was responsible for my happiness which is not the signal I want to send. And it's ultimately not true.
Trying to let it go and move on, but also figure out how to grieve appropriately.
Me53 H48 M 13 No children together BDMay '15 PA June '15 H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming