Thanks for the info and the guidance. I'll definitely keep posting here.
When you say stop posting on Facebook, I wasn't posting to her or anything. Just in general. Things I'm doing 180's on, really. Not being lazy, working out, eating well, spending time with friends, stuff like that. Since I'm gone, and these are things she would normally see me changing if we were under the same roof, FB is the only way she would know they are happening and begin to realize I'm serious about changing. I hope that doesn't sound too dumb, I'm just unsure. Like I said i can't get my hands on the books for a month or so. Do you suggest I do the "go dark" type thing?
