My recent journaling is not a sign of desperation but just asking if anyone has another view of it
I'll be on holidays from middle of next week and looking forward to that. Will be fun. Won't be on here at all, but I'll catch up in September.
Things have been OK or even good with w in relation to interactions etc.
This week we hadn't the kids. I am busy at work so she came with me. So for the last few days it has been almost 24/7 together alone. There were no bad moments and quiet a few good ones. One day was so good that a few Yeats ago we would have ML after it.
Communication has been good too with a definite shift in her . Instead of saying I would like to visit X city some day, it is we should. Doing stuff in the future together is mentioned more. Interactions have been better and she openly talks about more stuff and I get more validating chances.
All this is positive.
Without being a moaner, I guess all the signs means he is staying and things are not so bad. Time will tell if we are rebuilding a foundation or not. For a while now I have felt she is nit going anywhere, but will she be really here is more important. I can put in years to get to where I want us to be but years of limbo idk.
My little moan aside I am doing OK.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
