You can never tell another you have changed. This is something you show by your actions.
With addictions your spouse has a recovery journey too, she will have to take it, it's her journey to make. Enabling an addicted spouse can induce guilt shame and fear, because you perceive you are part of the problem.
This may sound very unsympathetic Dys, but your recovery is beginning and you are starting with baby steps.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
