Hey CaliGuy, how long did it take for you to begin to feel the detachment?

i have no contact with my W at all right now, but i think about her every ten seconds it feels like.

I went to another dance thing tonight as a GAL 180 but i just can't stop thinking about her all the time. no other women are pretty, everyone else has something wrong with them but her. etc. etc.

i pray to accept this and for her to be happy but i break down and sob almost every time.

what worked for you to detach? did anything work really well?

M36,W34
T18 years
M9 years
D3,D6
W "doesn't want to be married anymore"6/14/15
ILYBNILWY6/2015
W moves to parents house 6/30/15
W removes wedding band 7/3/15
My ring back on 8/8/15
Served 8/11/2015.