Congratulations on your 200 days of soberity. I always had faith in you that you could do it. (Manly first bump and high five!)
I am very sorry to hear that your W has decided to proceed with the D. I love your attitude, whatever happens you will be happier. That's the spirit and will help you thru these choppy waters.
Go out there and continue to live your life the way you want to. Don't look back, keep a PMA (you knew I'd write that) and you never know what the future holds for you.
By the way, I think many of us owe Wonka "real life" hugs. If only we could all meet, wouldn't that be something?
You have come farther than anyone I can think of at the moment since they joined our board.
I wish you well. You are doing great -- keep it up!
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15