I am not stopping the 180s at all - they have contributed to getting us to a better place, and I'm learning how to get through to H and what I need to do to make him feel more heard and valued. The 180s, to me, are insights and the foundation for our new R.
My goal is to turn them into habitual behavior, and continue working on finding even more of them.
I'm excited about the work I am doing on myself. I still don't know for certain if H and I are going to stay together forever, but I think I may continue to DBing for the rest of my life... It impacts not only a M, but all kinds of relationships.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
