TIME HAS COME PART 2

[asitis]

Sometimes there is a nugget in the spew, so it's OK to ponder what she says and see if there is a kernel of truth that might be worth your consideration. Very powerful to say at a later date, I was thinking about when you said X, and I can see better why you feel/felt that way. Shows her that you are listening and considering, which can take the wind out of her sails, especially if she feels like she has complained and nagged about certain issues that you never changed on.

Otherwise, lots of STFU smoothies and spew jackets. The lack of respect you see in the eyes is sometimes the hardest for me to take. That's just the way they feel at that moment, not that it will always be that way, but still hard to see.