Ok so im hearing that im not doing dark quite right and that im spending too much time with my S.

If we are getting along and it makes me feel better to see him I shouldnt do it?
If we are having fun and no R talking I shouldnt do it?
If we txt every few days and its about nothing much at all I shouldnt do it?

Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.