Logically I can see the need to set boundaries, but I feel that now is not the time to do it. I feel like at this point in time, I need to let everything play out, A included and once we move on to a point where she is also interested in salvaging our relationship, make my boundaries clear then. I understand that point may never come, but at the moment I am able to wait it out.
Advice / comments / 2 x 4s are all welcome. Thanks for taking the time to read.
"There are 10 kinds of people in this world. Those who understand binary and those who don't."
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Why do you not feel now is a good time for boundaries??? .... and before you answer I am guessing it will have something to do with your W's reactions. STOP!!!
Boundaries are for YOU ... if not now when? When the A is over and she starts coming back to you ... or when A is over and she moves on to OM2? Yes ... that A may play out, but if she does respect you , or learn to respect you I am not of the opinion a W will return.
Read up on Boundaries ... but do not be afraid to put them in place at any time during your sitch .. the sooner the better IMHO because she will test you on them.
