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[asitis]

I agree w/ Cali. You're just making it a power struggle rather than a cooperative partnership. Let her have the day for the church event. Wish them a great time. There will be times where you want the extra time for some specific similar activity. If you've established a pattern of flexibility and reasonableness, and not needing everything to be you get one, so I need to get one, you'll probably end up ahead.

Instead of worrying about the extra day & fuming over her response, just look for something extra fun to do when you get the kids back. My 2 cents.