MLC leads to EA and WAW

[Ontheup]

Hmm ok

So I presume you're doing everything possible to get a job? E.g you're not just sat on your arse. I believe for richer for poorer is what we sign up to in marriage so again you losing your job is no excuse for her.

She does seem be transparent but then it doesn't appear she is putting the full effort in to fix what she has broken! Again yiu need to think about whether and for how long you are willing to put up with this. Only you can answer that.

Tread carefully cheaters are very adept at lying and gas lighting.

If my wife really wanted it to work and was determined to resolve the marriage I would want to see her, not hear her doing everything possible to do so.
E.g if our councillor had asked us to do something as a couple as this will help fix the marriage then I'd be concerned if she wasn't doing as much as you.