I think L's are for giving L advice, not R advice. Stick to the forum for R advice I say....

For me L's fall into the well-meaning 'family and friends' ditch his cheating @ss camp.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus