I don't know if the OM taking any responsibility would help me. IMO it is my spouse that needs to take responsibility and own up to her part in this mess. Primarily the A and how badly that has compounded our problems.
M: 36 yo W: 36 yo S: 7 D: 4 M: 13 yrs BD: 6/14 (??) PE Confirmed 7/15 (4 months) The road to recovery starts now