U-turn: I was served by a person of the court coming to my house at 9:00 at night and I had to sign that I received the documents. I was alone and it was very devastating to be told by a stranger that my H had filed for divorce. I just wanted to let you know so that you can decide if you want to put your WW through that. For me, and I don't if this is because I am the LBS, but I would not wish that feeling in that moment on anyone. Even my WAH. Just a thought.
I do hope that taking this step will give you some peace and closure.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15