I also know I have to control my impulses or urges. I admit they do get the better of me. I did not realize about the 1 month per year time frame. curious.
Hello Maximus,
Yes, you do, but it also takes a lot of work, determination and time. I had a very hard time with that once my W left and filed for D. Besides the support on this forum, one thing that has really helped me control my impulses and urges is forcing myself to go out and GAL. I have found it really helps!
Good luck, my friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
