Agreed I cannot make her do anything but how I act and who I become can and did change how she acts with me. Who i was got me here. Who I am now becomng could get me out.
Giving her the present back immediately (later would make no sense) may not get me closer but accepting it I felt wouldnt either. Just give the impression things are cool and she can relax. You think I should accept the gift?
For me time is an issue because I have waited so long I just see myself in a year in the same rut.
I agree the goal can change and it has ocassionally relationship wise and not. My concern is really... while changing not to miss those signs.
As for the re evaluation.... I really do not want to see myself re evaluating my relationship in a year's time.
I am leaving for a trip tomorrow, do you think I should do a NC for that week or just not initiate. Let her send the sms?
