goal relation wise is make W want to have loving relationsip with me.
Great. (Though I'm not sure you can make her do anything. Your goal is to HAVE a loving relationship with your W, yes?)
Do you think giving her present back to her immediately gets you closer to that goal?
I'm also curious why you have so many qualifications on time and such. Your goal doesn't have to be your goal forever. But I would SET a goal and then CHANGE your goal of it changes. Say, in a year, reevaluate your goal and see if you stiil. Have that goal or not.
