That is exactly what I was trying to get to in terms of the forgivness.
You dont need to say it. And you should need nothing from him in order to do it. Yes acknowledgement and an apology would be great, and those things could come eventually but I wouldnt expect them right now.
I believe God forgives us, whether we repent or not, whether we ask for forgivness or not.
Once you are able to find it within to forgive and let go of the hurt, how you behave will change and your H will see that.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
