I think I know where the problem is. If you didnt read the previous posts I put then it could lead to confusion.
The objective is to try and keep her but not at any price and not wait for her. As I said in previous posts the focus on myself did make changes to the point she thought I had OW or was close to. We did grow closer and share some nice moments. The problem is the physical barrier. She will not get into any sort voluntarily. Result is it is back to square one only now we do interact more but 0 physical interaction of any sort. Neither when we argued did she or does she clearly say I want in or I want out. Loving Icons are also a no no from her.
I told her my feelings and decision and she got emotional and even posted lines of a song I love on her whatsapp profile. She has the key but wont use it so I have given up trying.
The only thing is that the same way we miss those signs things are going wrong at the beginning I dont want to miss those signs she is trying neither while caught up in my self focus.
Distancing yourself as a strategy may be good so long as you have clear if you want to lose the objective or not.
