Last night he texted me late and was in a bad mood. He was asking questions about dd15. (she broke her ankle couple months back and there was a problem at school the other day). So I calmly answered his questions. Then at the end I said have a good night and ended the conversation. About a half hour later I got "Well I thought we could talk but I guess not". I said that it seemed like he was in a bad mood and was busy talking to someone else (OW). I did not engage him very much at all. Somehow in that conversation he decided that I was out of the house. So he said have a good night out and have fun. I simply replied with ok.
I do not engage him when he is in a bad mood. It is useless. No matter what I say or if I try to defend myself it makes it worse. Besides if he thinks I am going out then maybe he will see me moving on with my life.
His contact with me is getting less and less. which I guess is part of the process. I know alot of it has to do with the OW. She has accomplished to alienate his children and now it looks like I am next. If that is the case so be it. I am standing for my marriage.
Help me please. I read Sandi's 37 daily and I practice them. I just don't know how to let go. I am afraid to.
Me 44 H 46 3 DD 22, 18, 15 1 DS 2.5 M 10/1992 BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014 Moved in with OW 7/20/2014
