It's you I am interested in, your pain after 12 months of this watching and waiting. I can read you struggling with this. If WH did let go of this mouthpiece, would he be the H of your dreams? Will he be keen in his vows, loyal to his beautiful W, caring of her feelings, remorseful, worthy of his W? Or will he go another round with a different OW, or go back to the same one? Will he respect and love you, stay faithful?
When you can say yes to all those questions it can be different. There will be a new M. In the meantime, your life is on hold. Detachment is key.
So what are the answers to my questions?
Hugs
V
In answer to your questions V, my answer is yes to all of them except for the OW. He will not go back or find a new one. I honestly believe that. Affair fog, MLC, whatever you want to call it, I believe he thinks the grass is greener there.
Me 44 H 46 3 DD 22, 18, 15 1 DS 2.5 M 10/1992 BD1 2/2014 BD 2 7/19/2014 Moved in with OW 7/20/2014
