It's not like I sat in front of them all day, ever day. The times I did play, it was a constant "pause, get up, do dad duties". I think my longest bout playing was an hour. W would sit on the couch on her phone, all day. I would be the one to take care of the kids, always have been. Not complaining, loved doing it.
My goals are:
#1 Find a Job #2 Get back in shape #3 Really dig into ME, I was far from perfect. W left ME because there were things she wasn't getting from me.