Thank you Ep0 and Vanila for the words of support. They mean more than I could possibly convey.
My goal is to be polite and non confrontational even if that means I take the "hit" personally or don't like it.
I am visualizing my W's motives coming from a place of love even though I don't agree with her behavior choices or actions.
I too am trying to come from a place of love and acceptance but I really do hate being taken for a ride. I guess I have to work on that issue myself, it's my issue, not hers. As long as it doesn't emotionally or physically hurt me, I can do it.
How does that sound? Am I in the ballpark of doing this correctly?
