HI Sandy,

Could do with some help please to understand my wife? I tried a variation of the ultimate loss (variation because I cannot call her a real WW or WAS) but it did shake her to the core. Last update today was it was my Bday on Sunday and today she gave me a bracelet she had ordered. I said thanks and gave it back as I have never used bracelets in a long time even though it looked nice. I know it may sound callous but she has a history of making me return presents even when my son was younger standing there watching his mother open the present to pull a face and said she didnt want it because she never uses it or doesnt like it or it was too expensive and make me return it. So much so she took the ilusion of giving presents in the house away from us. we on the other hand do the polite thing, thanks and treasure it. This is not a revenge tactic but at this moment I really do not have the time, patience or mood to be correct. Just real.

After viewing your posts I think you know much better than me what goes through a woman's mind... I dont smile

Thanks


M: 50
S: 25

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