If you haven't yet order and read the Divorce busting books. This as yku know if you've been on the MLC thread is not an easy journey. Your focus has to be on you. If you focus on her she will gladly take you on her rollercoster ride and I can tell yku it's not fun. Start by GAL. Keep busy. Show her yku are a strong independent person that has a life and interests of his own. I lurked for a long time before posting too. Many of us have. Lol You will find good support here.
Cheers,
Karma
Thanks for replying to me. I did read the books but I did a bad job on following them. My wife is so smart that I thought I could rationalize with her and show her she was in a MLC. Big mistake. After 1.5 years of being stepped on I finally decided to drop the rope, set her free and see if she comes back. This is a long as I could take the rollercoaster ride.