FLman, Ontheup said what I was thinking. I know it hurts. It is scary. But this is no way to start a marriage. Stick with us on this board and the people here can help you through this. Detach from this situation. If I was in your shoes, I would cut all ties with her. No communication. I would than go GAL BIG TIME!! I am not saying run out into a relationship or go hook up. Go have some fun with friends and family. I am assuming you live in Florida because of your screen name? If so, what are you worried about? I would be hanging out on the beach checking out the ladies in the bikinis!!!
Follow the steps on here and read all the welcome posts Cadet posted, read self help books, speak with a IC. Become the best man you can be and be patient for the next special lady that comes along. You will be fine. NOW GET OUT ON THAT BEACH!!! Suntan Florida ladies!! I would join you if I didn't have to work! But I am there in spirit!! We could get Wonka to come too maybe!! LOL!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
