So I tried to talk with H to see If there has been any change before I see L call it a last ditch effort. I didn't say I was seeing L because I am just going to see options. Anyway H became angry I thought he might not because he has been a little more in control with me not so much with S though. H still maintains he doesn't know about us and he has not gone outside marriage. I did ask because last night he lectures my S on lying and how it is wrong to lie. So I reminded him of that and ask for him to be honest. He says he hates coming around because I not pick at him and he does t feel I trust him.
I have tried very hard not to not pick and really believe I haven't as I have learned some things around here. As for trust I don't know how I show or don't show I trust him at this point. I have no idea what he means. And whatever he does for me I always make sure to thank him and never criticize.
Any thoughts or advice on something else I can do I would appreciate it.
