V is for Vanilla 20

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This is just my thoughts but those with kids may know different.

1. Your R with each kid is independent of WW. Stick to the R with each child and treat each one independently.
2. Don't discuss personal WW issues with the kids. Just admin.
3. Copy WW on texts to do with admin, stick to admin only and it will be ok. that way kids know there are no issues with WW knowing, she already does. They don't have to guess.
4. Use an online calendar for activities with kids, encourage everyone to use it.
5. Don't use the kids as a message carrier, the call system etc does that
6. Do not enter WW room or allow her into yours unless necessary
7. Have rules responding to texts admin kids immediate, etc
8. Have pictures of you and the kids around in your space, gently replace family photos with solo ones or happy pics
9. Eliminate things gently and replace, put kids stuff very visible in your space, open door for them
10. Hugs, lots and lots of hugs with the kids
11. Prompt pick ups and drop offs, minimum contact on arrival and exit and uber efficiency
12. Did I say lots of hugs? LOL

I am sure there are loads more