W texts me about S9 appointments, instructions, etc...etc...

S9 has special needs and appointments galore.

Wife feels the need to order me around to take him here, take him there, call the insurance company, speak to so and so, etc...

I know this is for the well being of my son but again..... feelings used and manipulated. If she can do all of this, why does she want to order me around? She treats me like a servant and has for the past few years. I have complained about it and she only laughs it off. I have told her many times I don't feel like an equal partner to her and again, no response.

I used to be the one who took care of the insurance, negotiated the deals, made the payments, and all of that.

What does the board suggest - keep on being the whipping boy/girl and do her bidding for the good of my son or let her assume the responsibility. I mean she has fired me.

Conflicted.


Was made a better person by DB'ers