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[Vanilla]

My strategy for Dark

1. No texts or calls, block WH on all iPhones and iPads. Office phones. Continued with new numbers.
2. No email, block WH on all email addresses
3. Clear all web browser histories, buy new tablet just for browsing.
4. Block WH on all boards, FB etc
5. Do not visit pubs, cafes or restaurants that WH frequents or may frequent
6. Be polite deal with admin issues promptly but no interaction
7. Forward mail promptly
8. Do everything I have to do legally and contractually
9. Move to D or better still annulment immediately, cut all ties
10. If I find any of WH things forward them asap with no covering note
11. Any bills owed by me to WH are paid by cheque not bank transfer
12. Other than Gamanon, L, IC and DB, no talking about WH, if any one asks "I hope he finds happiness" and "I don't see or hear from him" and "I get on with my life"
13. Get my treatment for Trauma and resolve my issues
14. Sell the big house and move to a different address that he has no knowledge of
15. No contact with WH family other than admin
16. No FB posts, no news of my GAL etc
17. Make my business successful
18. Grow as a person set myself challenges so my mind is occupied with much more inspiring things
19. No is my new Mantra when pressurised
20. put aside all photos, joint items so there is no discussion or memories
21. Give away, recycle or sell items WH gave me or used, unless utility (like light bulbs, fridges etc)
22. Decorate and move when possible, change the environment
23. Get fit and well, extraordinary self caress the effects of the stress and trauma are shifted from my nervous system
24. Connect with my friends and family, make it clear WH isn't open for discussion "sad but resigned"
25. Finish processing the business paperwork so as soon as possible I never see his handwriting or deal with his purchases, clear message boards and his name from template letters. move office
26. No please, thank you or friendliness, just blan bland breeze block
27. No discussion of assets bought or sold, no flash cars (white van woman rules), no jewellery, expensive cars or posh clothes, bland and blah
28. Become someone only a fool would leave but keep that a big secret
29. Go GAL on my terms in my time, keeps that private
30. No dating web sites, keep any friendships very quiet

Any other ideas my DB friends?

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