I just caught up with your thread. Wow you have done great! Not an easy road to travel. My ex had a MLC too. It helped me to learn about it so I could understand better what happened. It does not make their behavior ok. They have a right to be lost and confused but it's not ok to treat us badly. It is hard when they are sad and weak. It pulls on your heart strings. You handled everything so well. V is right when she says he fired you as his W. You can point him in the direction of help but it's not your job to "fix" him. Lessons I had to learn too.
It is normal and healthy to feel sad. This will pass and I predict a bright happy future for you is right around the corner.
Best wishes,
Karma
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.
