If you haven't yet order and read the Divorce busting books. This as yku know if you've been on the MLC thread is not an easy journey. Your focus has to be on you. If you focus on her she will gladly take you on her rollercoster ride and I can tell yku it's not fun. Start by GAL. Keep busy. Show her yku are a strong independent person that has a life and interests of his own. I lurked for a long time before posting too. Many of us have. Lol You will find good support here.
Cheers,
Karma
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.