Signing the Big D - What to do Next?

[Zues126]

Pink...sending you some good will on a day that represents the worst of the pain you've endured.

Of all the things you've done right, standing by your M is the best.

I don't know about you, but I've had many, many people share with me that they were divorced when they find out my status. When they do the first thing I ask, and I am not shy about it, is this: "Who walked?"

Guess what? Those people that get uncomfortable, try to complicate the issue and murk those waters, avoid the question...I wish them well. I can still work with them, do business with them, etc...but they aren't going to have a home in my emotional support group.

But there are also a few that can look me in the eye and admit that while they had fault in the M, it was never their decision, and it was a hard loss to accept. And that while they grew, and their life is better now, they didn't think the D was necessary to achieve those ends, and they will always consider that a tragedy.

Pink...I congratulate you on being a person that can respond that way to whomever asks for the rest of your life.