Now I just checked my gmail and my W has sent out the Evites for S10 party. The guest list of course is hidden and so are the comments. so I don't even know who will be there. She listed only her phone number on the invite. Am I able to ask who is on the guest list? I would like to know as a cost control method or maybe that would be viewed as too controlling.
I should be happy that she organized it. I organized our daughter's last birthday and my W found nothing but fault with how I organized it, who I invited, not enough seats, etc....etc... It was terrible and very stressful for me but the kids didn't notice which is what was important.
The whole thought of this makes me so unbelievably sad. Sad that again I have to go through the motions around our kids, sad because of this whole mess. We're having his birthday at a put put place where we had his 7th birthday which was such a happy day for all of us. What a contrast.
I just have to shake it off .... the show must go on folks!
