I believe it's this attitude that gets LBS' in so much trouble. We think that something we said or did or didn't do was not so important. Or that something the WAS feels is "regular" or "normal" and that it doesn't matter much.
But we forget that things are important to you. Something she tolerated but didn't like for years may now be rage-inducing.
Put yourself in her shoes. How do you think she feels. Not how do you think she SHOULD feel. See the difference?
