Tonight's GAL is quiet night at home alone with my fur baby reading Codependant No More, and I am fascinated. Realizing that I did not really know the true definition/s of codependency, but can see that both H and I, for different reasons, have been codependent in our M. No wonder we were having problems. I know this is diagnosing, but I also think that my H's current behavior, including A, considering leaving M, etc. are possibly his attempt to break away from his codependency.

Anyway, it is an interesting read that hits home for me.

Hope everyone is having a good night.


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015