This is what my wife sent me after she had asked to send what my plans are with the boys for the Little League All Star Tournament near us. She know that it's an annual thing I do with my boys.
*** First of all, you need request permission to take the boys for the day - not the weekend. Second, you must "ensure" that you can demonstrate Respect for me. Third, you need to "ensure" me that you are sober and capable of taking all 3 boys. These mood swings of yours are not earning you any points. I do not trust you to conduct yourself in a manor that demonstrates respect for me or anyone else. You need to think about how your selfish words and actions are negatively impacting the kids and stop immediately. Any time you spend with the kids must be EARNED by you. YOU are not calling the shots here. ***
I am so pissed off! CRAZY thing is: 1. She has always know and acknowledged that I am taking the boys to the tournament. 2.How can I demonstrate respect for her when she isn't around and I have conducted myself proper and gentleman like. I am the one having to dislodge from her tirades on the phone. 3. How can ensure that I am sober? I am sober and have been for (35) days. I think she doesn't believe me when I told her a while back I will stop and I have. Almost like she wants me to have failed to prove her reasoning to leave. I told her like in day 2 on my stopping drinking that I can get a home tester. She refused that I do that and said it wasn't necessary. 4. Mood Swings? I honestly am lost with this cause I rarely speak to her. I can show trust if she can't see me or I'm not around her. Someone please tell me how to do this? Thank You. 5. Again, I don't know what she is talking about b/c I am speaking with my kids and telling them I love them, miss them and they will be ok and good night. Seriously this is what I am saying. 6. Time spent with the kids must be earned? 7. She is acting tough by her saying she is calling the shots? Gosh I just want to say something but it's unbecoming.
Is ok if I ask her what the hell she is talking about and to explain? I want to know so I can understand and also work at it? Not for her but my kids. At this point, she is looking like she is nuts to me making things up and trying to be hard and strong.
Please help and advice b/c I just want to fire back. I don't know whys she is acting this way!
