HI sunny. Not really. I mean I speak to my father a few times a year if needed. I have not talked to my brother in years. I talk to my mom ONLY if she calls but usually pass her off to my D as I would prefer to not talk to her. She is very toxic and manipulative. Her and her H very rarely work, have no home, and pass themselves around to whomever will let them stay. I detatched from my Mother 4 years ago when she borrowed money from D's account with promise to pay it back and never did then the next month threatened to call child services on me simply because I would not turn the heat on in october! She has always been this way it just took me 25 years to figure it out and break free. I have a sister I very rarely talk to either. My mom and her H are supposedly going to Texas for work. My father lives about 7 miles away but he is an alcoholic and WAS very abusive when we were children so I do not have much of a R with him. I have several step sibblings but have also not talked to them in probably 7 or more years. I consider my family as distance as I can keep them and H's family is my family. As stated above no matter what I would still be at holidays with H's family no matter what. I lived with them when I was 17 and my mother signed guardianship over so she could move across the united states with her husband my senior year of high school after I attended same school my entire life. She just could not wait a year to move so I moved in with H's family. They are both of our support system. They stay out of the middle of it and will NOT take sides. does this help clear up family sitch?
