Wow .... ok your sitch makes my head spin a bit. Sunny and Toots are helping you out a bit and I just thought I would chime in here.
So you have 3 kids .. your ..'guy' H BF what ever you call him has fathered 3 (or 2 I am confused) kids with 3(or 2 I am confused) different women as you and he have been on and off for 13 years if I have read this correctly. And now .... well looks like dude is going after #4. (or #3)
I am not trying to 2x4 you or anything but seems to me you are in a way enabling him to continue, providing a nice live in baby sitter in hopes he gives you some table scraps along the way.
4my, you need to detach, GAL and build up some self esteem here, if nothing changes... nothing will change ya know? What would make this guy into a man worthy of you .. the prize?
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I have never cheated ON him but we have cheated together on my boyfriends and on his girlfriends!
At some point you have to see the crazy up there ^^^^. I had a friend who was cheating on her BF with another guy .... then she was furious when it turned out he was seeing someone else on the side. Relationships do not work with 3-4-5 people ... seems you need to really sit down and think about what you will and will not settle for, might be a great time to read up on boundaries and start believing you deserve better ... better than what you have been given up to this point.
My point ... you have more control of YOUR life than you are giving yourself credit for ... let him do his thing, obviously he is going to do that regardless .... become a better person for YOU .. not him.
