Long story short, today my W gave me her intentions of filing for D. This was partly in response to me asking for my dog back and also the course that we seemed to be heading down.
"I know this email probably gives you the same punch in the stomach that it gives me. Sorry for that. But we can't avoid it forever. Since its clear we aren't getting back together I think it's time to finalize things.
Translation ... I have made up my mind ... same old story, same script ... PP you are going about this right, she is making sure she fires this shot at your crotch so it hurts ... hang in there. I've had this bullet fired at me more times than I care to share.
Originally Posted By: PigPen
As for Woofie I have one last question for you since you've made it clear that you want him. Do you think that it's best for him to be with you and thats what he would prefer? Honestly? Or is your decision coming from your own needs and desires?"
When I was reading your sitch a bit ago I have to admit I was curious about this too. Sometimes here you see issues just as this where its more about 'winning' than anything else ... something I relate to as I got to a point I was just done with always being on the short end of the stick ... in your case I am not getting that vibe, you are trying to be fair and honest.
Originally Posted By: PigPen
I'm going to be speaking with an attorney this week just to make sure my t's are crossed and i's dotted.
My DB adventure will continue, I know this is just a small blip in a large road. Thank you wholehearted to everyone on this board for your encouragement, love, and support. This has been a living hell made bearable only by all of you.
Even more thanks to Wonka, 25, and all of the vets that have chimed in to keep me on track. I'm going to live an amazing life, one so much richer than the I was experiencing in my M. Perhaps it will be with my W, perhaps not, but it's still going to be incredible.
My plan is also to stay on this board and keep working the DB process, and continue learning as much as I can.
PP
Its all you can really do ... till you decide that there is a point of no return for you. Your W has her journey and you have yours ... sometimes they need closure to move on, I always thought my W would actually need to sign the D paperwork for this to happen, turns out I was wrong, just so happened before that. Everyone is different and things will go as they will ... all we can do is control ourselves, and become better for it.
