So my STBX texted me the other night. This always happens when I don't communicate with him for over a week. There was no reason for the text other than he was testing the waters. He said " sorry I'm just getting back to you. ( he didn't need to get back to me lol) I've been busy working on my court case. Going up aganist my SM again soon. I'm out right now for dinner with SD. She liked the change purse she was given. Thanks for dropping off her passport."
Normally I would have texted back and probably asked about the court case ect. This time I did not text back. That was two days ago. I did text today to ask if SD can come over tomorrow to see my son before he returns to the UK. I only asked about SD and made no comments about his text. It feels good to feel empowered.

I have a new man messaging me from the online dating site. We haven't met yet and probably won't for another 10 days or so as he is leaving for vacation. So far so good with our chats. He seems to quite like me. Lol

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.